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Case Study Analysis

Background

Conflict-Handling Style

Source : lumenlearning

There are five major styles of handling conflict which include the following:

Accommodating (Lose – win) – The needs of the other party can be met by one party, even if it places them at a disadvantage.
Avoiding (Lose – Lose) – The situation is avoided by both parties, resulting in the conflict remaining unresolved.
Competing (Win – Lose) – The interests of the other party are disregarded as one party stands firm on their desires and will not back down.
Collaborating (Win – Win) – Time and effort are taken by both parties in devising a solution that is mutually beneficial.
Compromising (Either one) –  A middle ground is sought by both parties where concessions may need to be willingly made by one party in order to resolve the conflict.

What is Robert’s conflict-handling style?

Based on the above case study, the conflict handling style used by Robert can be identified as competing style. To further support my answer, let’s break it down into the following key points:

Standing firm: Despite knowing about the company’s plan to use the majority of the profits for a new project. Robert being a director, did not act in the interest of the company. Instead, he made clear that his team needs to be compensated with an eight percent raise.

Will not back until desires are met: Kay recognised the value of Robert’s team and offered alternatives opportunities such as overseas assignments and promotions within the new project. However, Robert did not even give it a thought and instead he demonstrated the lengths he is willing to go for his request to be accepted by resorting to threatening the involvement of the union.

Hence, the conflict-handling style of Robert can be classified as competing style, where he remains firm on his decision and not willing to compromise.

Bargaining approach

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Distributive (Win – Lose) – It is a position based negotiation, where one is fixated on getting ‘what they want’ at the expense of the other party.
Integrative (Win – Win) – It is a interest based negotiation, where both both parties will engage in joint problem solving to find a mutually beneficial solution that satisfies both parties’ interests.

What is Robert’s bargaining approach?

Robert’s bargaining approach would be Distributive. This is further supported by the following key points:

Focuses on self gain: Being a director, Robert knows well enough that if his team were to get an eight percent raise, it will hinder the company’s budgeting on the new project. Also, Robert threatens to involve the union, further shows that Robert is fixated on getting what he wants.

Disregarding the other party: When Kay proposed new opportunities as an alternative solution to Robert’s request, Robert disregarded Kay’s proposal without even trying to come up with a mutually beneficial solution. Thus, this shows that Robert is only concerned about getting what he wants and not giving a thought to the other party. Robert’s focus on maximising gain for him and his team while is the clear indication of “winner-takes-more”. Hence, a Distributive bargaining approach which results in a win – lose situation, where if Robert and his team gets the eight percent raise (Win), the company will have tight budget for new project (Lose).

Interpersonal Communication

Source : simplilearn

Interpersonal communication is the process of exchanging information between two or more people either through verbal or non-verbal methods. It be can grouped under four main aspect of communication: verbal, listening, written and non-verbal.

What aspect of interpersonal communication is contributing to the poor working environment? How is this demonstrated in the case?

They key aspect that is contributing to the poor working environment would be the listening aspect. It is seen when Kay offered alternative opportunities, Robert was dismissive of Kays’ offer as he adamant about getting monetary compensation for his team. Robert is hearing but not listening, he was too blinded by his self-centered request that it prevented him from considering the bigger picture, leading to tension in the workplace, ultimately contributing to the poor working environment.

Edward Hall’s Context Model

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Using Hall’s context model (high and low context culture), describe one of the characters’ behaviour. How did you determine that?

Based on Hall’s context, Robert’s behaviour can be viewed as low-context culture. Traits from low-context culture exhibited by Robert includes:

Competitive: Robert stands firm on his desire for monetary compensation, not willing to take no for an answer.
Individualistic: Robert prioritise his team’s interests over the company’s plans for expansion.
Verbal & Explicit: Robert speaks his mind, he put his points across explicitly stating that he wants eight percent raise.

These traits aligns with the characteristics of a low-context culture, where straightforward communication, prioritising individual goals, and being competitive are deemed important.

References

Valamis (2023) 5 conflict management styles every manager must know [guide], Valamis. Available at: https://www.valamis.com/hub/conflict-management-styles (Accessed: 30 July 2023).

Quain, S. (2019) Differences between Distributive Bargaining & Integrative Bargaining, Small Business – Chron.com. Available at: https://smallbusiness.chron.com/differences-between-distributive-bargaining-integrative-bargaining-11582.html (Accessed: 30 July 2023).

Terra, J. (2023) What is interpersonal communication? skills, types, and examples: Simplilearn, Simplilearn.com. Available at: https://www.simplilearn.com/what-is-interpersonal-communication-article (Accessed: 30 July 2023).

Bansal, V. (2022) High context culture vs low context culture: Communication Design for avoiding uncertainty, TechTello. Available at: https://www.techtello.com/high-context-culture-vs-low-context-culture/ (Accessed: 30 July 2023).

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Stereotypes

What is stereotype?

Stereotyping involves forming fixed and oversimplified perceptions or expectation of individuals or groups based on traits like race, skin tone, gender, sexual orientation, age, and more. It is usually created based on one or a small number of experiences, which are then placed onto the whole group. An example, in the first year of school, Jimmy had a classmate who was an exchange student from china and excelled in mathematics. In the following year, he met another exchange student from china who also happens to excel in mathematics. Now Jimmy has developed a stereotype about foreign student being good at mathematics.

In what ways do stereotypes affect the way that we communicate with each other?

While stereotype can be funny and harmless as long as they are not taken at face value, it can also have a significant impacts on the way we communicate with each other. Negative stereotypes can leads to discrimination, while positive stereotypes can leads to unrealistic expectation, and thus might result in conflict due to misunderstanding and limited perspectives. An example of positive and negative stereotype based on race.

Positive stereotype (race): Chinese are good at maths!
This creates an expectation that all chinese are good at maths, and it overlooks the differences in each individuals within the chinese community. There’s a famous quote “Expectation leads to disappointment”, and this sits well with positive stereotype. It can unknowingly bring in unnecessary pressure to other individuals who may be struggling. Moreover, it can leads to discrimination if said chinese were terrible at maths, resulting is an unfair treatment.

Negative stereotype (race): Ching chong ling long ting tong When people assume that asian looking individuals are chinese, they might use such offensive slurs to imitate the chinese language. This behaviour not only disrespect the chinese culture but also the individual who may not be chinese. This may result in conflicts due to the nature of offensive interactions as seen in the video below.

One experience I had witness

It is very common to witness stereotypes in our day to day life. Even in some cartoon shows, unknowingly we are being fed to stereotype people.

I have encountered many instances where stereotypes happen. This particular story dates back to June 2022 when my friend was working as a food delivery rider. I met him for a quick lunch during his break. It was then I overheard a conversation between a mother and her child. She was telling her child to study hard, or else he might end up delivering food like my friend. Words cannot describe the anger and the urge I felt to educate this woman. However, my friend remained surprisingly calm about it like he is used to this type of comments. He is still studying at NUS with full private scholarship, which itself is an impressive feat. To top it off,  that he is getting married at the end of the year too. (I know what you are thinking, and answer is no, it’s not a shotgun marriage). Yet, he was being judged solely based on the green uniform he was wearing, all because of stereotypes.

What are the implications of such events occurring in our social life?

It can have an impact on personal well being as it will cause emotional distress if the individual could not take such mean comment.  It can definitely also lead to hostile interactive. Using the example given above, my friend could get defensive and confront the mother and the situation will have a downward sprial effect.

Conclusion

When we stereotype, we draw conclusion about entire group of people based on personal assumption without know each of them individually. Whether it is the positive or negative stereotypes it brings no good. By succumbing to stereotypes, we could be missing out on a valuable experiences, relationships and connecting with others on a genuine level.

References

By, S.M. et al. (2023) Stereotypes in psychology: Definition & examples, Simply Psychology. Available at: https://www.simplypsychology.org/katz-braly.html (Accessed: 27 July 2023).

Leonard, K. (2021) Advantages & disadvantages of different types of communication, Bizfluent. Available at: https://bizfluent.com/info-8090058-advantages-disadvantages-different-types-communication.html (Accessed: 27 July 2023).

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Johari Window

Let’s take a quick look at what Johari Window is…

Framework of Johari Window

Johari Window is a psychological tool designed to help individuals develop a better understanding of themselves and increase self-awareness. It provides visual framework divided into 4 quadrants:

Open Area (public self): How you and others perceive yourself
Blind Spot (unknown self): Others see things in you that you are unaware of
Hidden Area (hidden self): The side of you that others are unable to see or you are unwilling to show
Unknown (unconscious self): Neither you nor others are aware of

To fill in the Johari Window, you can use the list of 56 adjectives as shown below.

Source: Extracted from Lecture 04 Slide 46

Now, let’s explore the 2 Johari Windows that I have completed

Done by my new friend, Joey that know me only for 2 weeks
Done by my close friend, Zhi Ming that know me for 11 years

Is it an accurate representation of myself ?

To a certain extend, yes. There is a factor of time in play where my new friend only knows me for 2 weeks while my close friend know me for 11 years had more time to understand and observe my behaviour. Surprisingly, despite the longer acquaintance, both has the same number of traits in the hidden area (11 traits). The reason behind this could be the way I portray myself. Overall, both windows were quite similar, as elaborated further in the later sections of the blog post. I have listed 26 traits which I believe is what I am, and both windows got 15 of the traits. Thus, to a certain extend, it is an accurate representation of myself.

Am I surprised by my friend’s perception ?

After reviewing the results, I am very surprised. Both friend believe that I possess traits such as being clever, knowledgeable, modest, spontaneous and witty, which I do not associate myself being any of those traits at all. I was particularly surprised by my close friend’s response, as I always considered myself being a sentimental person, but it was not known to him. In addition, I expected my close friend to have a higher number of traits in the open area, as compared to my new friend. The fact that they have the same amount of traits listed in the open area had left me wondering if they truly know me equally.

In addition, when comparing the 2 windows above, both have the same amount of traits listed in each quadrant. It is uncanny! There is also more than 50% similarities in the traits listed when comparing quadrant to quadrant between the 2 windows. The window below depicts the common findings between the two windows.

11 of 15 similar traits listed in open area
5 of 9 similar traits listed in blind spot
6 of 11 similar traits listed in hidden area
17 of 21 similar traits listed in unknown

Traits that both friends agreed on

The takeaway

Using the traits listed in the blind spot, it allows me to gain insights into what others thinks about me that I am unaware of. Understanding their perception of me, it helps to enhance my self-awareness, enabling me to adapt and communicate more effectively. Also, the traits listed in the hidden area may serves a reminder to myself that I lack to express myself in. By showing this hidden aspect of me more, it will help to foster a stronger sense of trust with others. Hence, the results yield from Johari Window is helpful in self-awareness and communication in a team.

Conclusion

To conclude, Johari Window is a great tool for individuals to gain a better understanding of themselves. Knowing both the blind spot and hidden area is helpful for self-awareness and especially helpful in communication within a team. By shrinking your hidden area, it helps to build more trust and by reducing your blind spot, it helps to be more self-aware.

Reference

Mind Tools Content Team, MindTools. Available at: https://www.mindtools.com/au7v71d/the-johari-window (Accessed: 19 July 2023).

Welcome to self awareness (2022a) Welcome to Self Awareness. Available at: https://www.selfawareness.org.uk/2022/09/25/understanding-the-johari-window-model/ (Accessed: 19 July 2023).

Shannon and Weaver’s Communication Model

Shannon and Weaver’s Communication Model

Diving into why is it incomplete

“A dialouge based on the Shannon and Weaver’s Communication Model”

Source (sender): Andrew
Transmitter/Receiver: Phone
Channel: Cell tower
Noise: Distortion in signals resulting in muffled voice which cannot be interpreted (highlighted in bold)
Destination: Betty

The main focus of Shannon and Weaver model was on telephonic conversation – sharing of information between two people where they are not present face to face. Although it is a simple model, human interactions and communication are much more than a linear, one-way process communication. Taking a look at the dialogue between Betty and her boss, the following elements are lacking…

Feedback

The message being received as intended by the sender is unknown to the sender. In this case, Andrew do not know if Betty received the message as intended. With feedback, the receiver is able to provide feedback according to the message, thereby making the communication more realistic. Taking a look at how the dialogue between Betty and her boss would be if there was feedback. The inclusion of feedback allows Andrew know that Betty did not catch the crucial part where she have to get the links sent by noon.

Context

Communication has no meaning without context. Context provides a deeper understanding of the situation, allowing more accurate interpretation of message. If there were context, the dialouge between Betty and her boss would be as follows. Andrew started of by letting Betty know that it is an urgent matter, and the importance to get the meeting invites out by noon. This additional information helps Betty understand the time-sensitive nature of the task, allowing her to prioritise her work accordingly and meet the deadline.

Body Language

Though the focus for the model was on telephonic conversation, it can be applied to face-to-face conversation as mentioned below. Nonverbal communication, including facial expressions, hand gestures, and more, encompasses 65% of total communication (Birdwhistell, 1970) and is universal to humankind. Take Mr. Bean as an example, without a word spoken and with body language as his primary means of communication, he is still able to express him. Viewers from all around the world is able to understand him, solely based on body language.

face-to-face’s model

Source: person talking
Transmitter: mouth
Channel: air (transmitting sound wave)
Noise: surrounding background noise
Receiver: ear
Destination: listener

My model

The model above, incorporates both feedback and body language(when applicable – face to face) between both sender and receiver with context as the main focus. Knowing the context, the same level of understanding of the situation can be achieved by both parties. Having feedback from sender to receiver and vice-versa ensures that both parties receives the message as intended. There is no perfect model, or a one size fits all model, this version of model is an adaptation of Shannon and Weaver’s Communication model based on my understanding.

Conclusion

The touch of human, such as feedback, context and body language, is lacking in Shannon and Weaver’s communication model. And by omitting any one of these, the message sent may not be interpreted as intended by the sender. Although the model is incomplete, it is often reffered to as “mother of all models”(Businesstopia) which helps to lay the foundation and understanding the technical aspects of communication.

References:

https://study.com/learn/lesson/shannon-weaver-model-communication-theory-parts-transmission-model.html#:~:text=The%20original%20model%20that%20Shannon,process%20from%20linear%20to%20cyclical

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shannon%E2%80%93Weaver_model

https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Nonverbal_communication

https://clariti.app/blog/importance-of-context-in-communication/#:~:text=Context%20plays%20an%20important%20role,cultural%20context%20and%20psychological%20context

A little more about me

Hello there! My name is Jit Siong and people usually just call me Jit. I am 24 this year, currently in my second year pursuing my degree in Computer Science (CS) – Cyber Security and prior to enrolment, I was studying Electrical, Computer and Communications engineering at Nanyang Polytechnic and it was at this period that I was first exposed to coding and it sparked my interest in CS.

LIFE BEFORE UNIVERSITY

After my mandatory National Service, I was in no mood to study and was also not sure whether to pursue CS, so I took a gap year to work full time while trying to figure things out and my parents were definitely not happy about my decision (you know how asian parents are). Since I was used to having to know what the next step in life was(primary -> secondary -> tertiary -> army) and seeing my friends going to university made me couldn’t help but wonder if I made the wrong decision. However, in hindsight, if I were presented the same choice again, I would take gap year in a heartbeat.
During my gap year, I worked as IT support full time while freelancing as IT field engineer on the side and it was during this period I had the opportunity to interact with individuals from all walks of life and ultimately made me solidify my decision in pursuing CS.

“Low quality photo but high quality times”

Why Computer Science – Cyber Security ?

Since the world is transitioning into digital world, our lives is becoming more dependent on digital systems than ever where it is almost hard to imagine a life without it. We have all our personal data stored online, from our photos, bank records to medical records. Hence, I pursued cyber security in hopes to contribute towards a safer online world

LEISURE TIME

I rarely play games, sometimes I would go for weeks without playing any games and sometimes I will play everyday for a few days depending on my mood. Due to motion sickness from playing most games, my games are limited only to League of Legends, Osu and Counter Strike. Since I seldom play games, I mostly would spend my free time watching Netflix – K-drama, Sitcom, Anime, Documentary. One of my favourite documentaries is “14 Peak: Nothing Is Impossible”. It is about Nirmal Purja, formerly Nepalese, now British who defies all odds by summiting 14 peaks in just 6 months 6 days while the previous record was 7 years 310 days. Nobody believed in him when he first announced his plans to summit 14 peaks in under 7 months. However, against all odds, Nims proved that his “impossible” goal was achievable.

TRAVEL

I love travelling because it gives me a sense of freedom, allowing me to break free from the repetitive lifestyle. While some may dread to travel due to the hassle of planning the itinerary but for me, I would say I am very flexible in terms of planning. Typically, for each trip I only have a few must-visit places which left me with ample time to exploring random places, although usually I would just chill in café. This year, I visited Japan, Korea and Taiwan and during my Taiwan trip I went on a hike to Xiao Zi Shan (孝子山), it’s my first time going on a hike while travelling and let’s just say that this definitely would not be my last time going on a hike while travelling! Sharing some photos that I took for my 3 trips

Thanks all for reading till the end, hope you get to know me a little more!